On Joy and Sorry by Kahlil Gibran
6 June 2010
I stumbled upon this via my friend, Jude's blog, and almost instantly upon reading, I felt enlightened. I had to thank him. So for those searching or yearning for balance in their lives, let Kahlil Gibran's words speak to you as it did with me.
Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.
And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises
was oftentimes filled with your tears.
And how else can it be?
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being,
the more joy you can contain.
Is not the cup that holds your wine
the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven?
And is not the lute that soothes your spirit,
the very wood that was hollowed with knives?
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart
and you shall find it is only that which has given you
sorrow that is giving you joy.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart
and you shall see that in truth you are weeping
for that which has been your delight.
Some of us say, “Joy is greater than sorrow,”
and others say, “Nay, sorrow is the greater.”
But I say unto you, they are inseparable.
Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board,
remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.
Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and joy.
Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced.
When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and silver,
needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall.

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